Aries January

Aries, you may be shook this month by how profound your sexual and spiritual awakening is. With Chiron, the Wounded Healer, now direct in your sign for several months, you’ll be less in the mood to play mind games, and more in the mood to be direct and honest with your lover(s) about what you want from both yourself and others. You’ve been taking time to reflect on this, especially with Uranus, the Planet of Surprise, rounding out its retrograde in Taurus. Uranus Retrograde activates your sector of security, and the first 10 days of January 2020 may be full of epiphanies regarding how to actualize your sexual and emotional fulfillment.

Even if you ended the year thinking you wanted something or someone in particular, you may be beginning the new decade with a completely different frame of mind, and that’s okay. Be honest about the type of lover(s), if any at all, that you want to have orgasmic sex with, and most importantly why. The answer doesn’t have to be super deep or super serious, Aries. It could be because you’re madly in love, or it could be because you’re curious about what it would be like. It could be a combination of it all, or you could be confused and need more time to feel out the attraction, or lack of it.

The Cancer Full Moon Lunar Eclipse’s energy will be felt all month long, and since it highlights your sector of roots, there’s a part of you that will be seeking more stability in your sex life. Even if you’re a pro at experimentation and switching things up, suddenly you may find yourself craving positions such as missionary and 69, and instead of rushing through every part of sex you’ll find yourself slowing down and being intentional with your lover(s). This will surprise you all, and it will also heat up your connection because it will be so much more than just a physical one, it will be a spiritually bonding one.

Even if you’re not currently boo’d up or you don’t currently have a sex partner, your fantasies will be out of this world this month, Aries, particularly once Venus, the Planet of Love & Magnetism, shifts out of airy Aquarius and enters the super wet and juicy sign of Pisces. Your sector of spirituality and awakening is activated mid-month, and you’ll have an magnetic effect on those you merge with. It’ll feel intoxicating to make love to you, even if it’s only in someone’s dreams.

Your own dreams and intuitive sexual desires will be through the roof this January, which will make Venus in Pisces the ideal transit to indulge in self-pleasure. You’ll feel immensely turned on by yourself during the second half of the month Aries, even more than usual. Your ability to make yourself cum increases exponentially this month, so have fun buying a new sex toy or making your own erotic movie you can replay at night while all your secret and not-so-secret admirers are blowing up your phone, dying for a chance to merge with you.

You’re ruled by Mars, the Planet of Action, and this month it spends most of its time in fiery Sagittarius. You’re in your element, and everyone knows it. Sagittarius energy is all about options. How can you integrate having more options in your sex life? Whether that literally means having sex with more than one person this month so you can indulge in variety, or if that means daring to explore a sexual position you never thought you’d explore, the key to your sexual bliss this month is to view sex as the ultimate adventure. You’ll get bored more easily under this Mars in Sag transit, so don’t even waste your time entertaining people who make you feel “so-so”. Only say yes to dates and adventures that you intuitively feel will end with a bang. Even if you don’t end up having sex, you’ll want to feel like the entire time spent with them was sex in itself.

Once Aquarius Season begins on the 20th, followed by the Aquarius New Moon on the 24th, you may surprise both yourself and others by how much you tame your more primal nature and start connecting with people on a more intellectual level. Suddenly you’ll be more drawn to friends-with-benefits type of dynamics rather than needing a super passionate connection. This could kickstart a six-month whirlwind with someone in your social network who has the potential to be one of the best sexual partners you’ve had so far. That’s because your connection is deeper than just physical attraction, there’s the whole package.

Set intentions as the month ends about what it would look like to have consistent bomb sex with someone who gets you intellectually, physically, spiritually and emotionally, and who also gives you the space you crave without you needing to ask for it. If you already have that connection, then be sure to nurture it this month. It’s only going to get wilder, rougher, deeper, and more passionate as the month goes by. Hold on tight.