Aries September

Aries, with your planetary ruler Mars retrograde all month long, until November 13th, you’ll notice quite a few changes to your sex and love life. First, you won’t necessarily be feeling as horny or sexually activated as usual, and at first that may throw both you and your lover(s) off. If you’ve been riding solo, you’ll notice yourself being more introverted and pushing away people who are trying to shower you with love. This may particularly take place in the first half of the month though, as you’re still getting adjusted to Mars’ retrograde in your sign. You’re transforming.

Once the Virgo New Moon begins on the 17th, your sector of health and service is activated, and you may suddenly be in a people-pleasing mood. You’ll have high standards when it comes to who you’re talking to, flirting with, and connecting with. Be prepared for people to call you out if they find you overbearing in any way though, Aries. Mars being in your sign is leading to people wanting to merge with you and have sex with you, but they also may be unsure of what your intentions are, and unsure of how trustworthy you truly are. It’s not up to you to prove your worth, but have compassion for the fact that they want to know if you’re only into them physically, or if there’s a spiritually connection too. Sex with you will feel deeply intriguing…

Once Libra Season begins on the 22nd, you’ll notice that your desires to have sex with a partner who sees you, loves you, and fully celebrates you, increases. You’ll come out of hermit mode and enter a more ferociously sexy state of being. Libra Season activates your sector of relationships and marriage, and if you’ve been in a situationship with someone these past few months and the sex has been great, you could have an orgasmically pleasing session during the last two weeks of September that leaves you out of breath and ready to propose. Whewww. Things may escalate fast this Libra Season, but Mars retrograde wants you to slow down and make decisions not only based on your libido, but based on your most soulful needs.

Since Jupiter, the Planet of Abundance, is now direct in Capricorn, and Saturn, the Planet of Challenge, is preparing to end its retrograde on the 29th, you’ll start thinking of your sex life in a more long-term perspective. If you’ve been in a series of short-term flings, you may find yourself dissatisfied and seeking more consistency, commitment and loyalty. Alternatively, if you’ve felt bored sexually, or have been craving to spice things up, Jupiter’s shift direct will help you feel more confident in expressing what’s missing. You may not be in the mood to take the lead this month — you’ll want your lover(s) to intuitively know what’s up, and you’ll want them to surprise and woo you. Have fun and turn sexual foreplay into a scavenger hunt, perhaps? Let your body be the map that they explore… Guide them with your hands, and then let them handcuff you so you can no longer tell them what to do. They’re the captain now, and they’ve kept you hostage…