With Venus, the Planet of Love, shifting into Gemini on April 3rd and activating Cancer’s sector of spirituality and healing for several months, know that April 2020 is about to take things to a new level — the sex will feel out of this world, be it physical or virtual. More than anything,though, sex is spiritual for you. And since Pluto, the Planet of Transformation, will begin its fivemonth retrograde in Capricorn on the 25th — which will activate your sector of marriage and relationships — you’ll be feeling Pluto’s upcoming retrograde all month long, as you evaluate what you may have previously said you wanted from sex and intimacy, and gage whether it’s still aligned with what you currently want. It’s okay to change one’s mind, Cancer. It’s okay to not want what you thought you wanted.
People-pleasing is something you often do, and the Libra Full Moon on the 7th may at first lead to you originally suppressing some of your sexual desires in order to make sure your crush/partner is pleased first. Shawty… why would you want to go and do that? Use the bold and empowering vibes of Aries Season — which is activating your sector of work and reputation — to put your own needs first. If you’ve been tired of being the main one initiating sexts or sending hot booty pics, then go ahead and let bae know that they need to catch up. People will be more drawn to the more confident and bossy side of you, Cancer.
You had all of Pisces Season to be the sweet ‘Lil angel that you usually are. Now let the more badass side of you emerge, particularly as you’re indulging in self-pleasuring. The more you get to know your body’s needs, the more you know what it takes to get you over the edge, moaning for more, the better you’ll be able to express what exactly you need people to do to you, say to you, write you or show to truly get you activated. These are interesting times we’re living in, Cancer, and it’s time to get creative.
Mars, the Planet of Action, hangs out in Aquarius all month long, and it activates your sector of depth, merging and intimacy. While Aquarius is known as the sign of emotional detachment, you’ll find that Mars in Aquarius helps you balance both logic and emotion in a way that helps you make romantic and sexual decisions from a more clear-headed space. You’ll be less likely to second-guess everyone’s approaches to you, and you’ll accept the compliments they send you way with a more open-hearted spirit.
If you’ve been connecting with someone mostly digitally via texts or FaceTime dates, Mars in Aquarius may activate more of your sapiosexual side, and you may end up falling more for their intellect than anything — the more they can talk to you in a way that expands your mind and perspective, particularly once Mercury, the Planet of Communication, shifts into fiery and bold Aries, the more turned on you’ll be and the more you’ll open up.
With Venus, the Planet of Love, in airy Gemini most of the month, it’s likely that more than one person will be on your mind this month, either in terms of being people with whom you’d like to engage in sexual healing or people you can’t get off your mind in terms of desiring to have sex with them and be pleased by them. Gemini energy can bring out your inner freak, Cancer. Even if you tried to push people away, the flirtatious and light-hearted energy of Venus in Gemini may make it likely for you to accept their sexual and romantic advances anyways. It’s up to you to make sure you’re not leading others on or letting them lead you on due to boredom or a desire for attention. Do you really want them to send that sext your way with that dirty ass caption, or are you subconsciously trying to see how much control you may still have over them?
By the time Taurus Season begins the 19th, followed by the Taurus New Moon on the 22nd, your sector of friendships and sector network will be activated, and since you’re ruled by the Moon, you’ll feel this influence strongly when it comes to analyzing the way your friends or people who are in your acquaintances start to make you feel. Prepare for people to slide in your DMs or match with you on dating apps in greater frequency with this Taurus New Moon. Since Uranus, the Planet of Surprise, is currently in Taurus, you should release expectations when matching with people online, and push yourself out of your comfort zone. You may find that you become sexually and emotionally attracted to people you previously had friend-zoned, and vice versa.
Already boo’d up? The Taurus New Moon at month’s end is the perfect opportunity to be more daring with your partner sexually and try to fulfill some of their more extreme fantasies. Roleplaying, whips, hand-cuffs, whipped cream, blindfolds, shower sex, kitchen sex, phone sex… The big Taurus energy will have you wanting to be pinned down and dominated, and then you’ll want to switch roles and be the dominator. Follow those urges if you have the privilege to be with the person igniting those fireworks within you. Take the lead and be the captain of your sex ship.