Happy March, Capricorn! You’ve been taking yourself super seriously these past few weeks with Venus in your zodiac sign. But on the 1st of March, it switches into airy and detached Aquarius until March 26, and activates your abundance and security sector. This will help you breathe easy, adopt more of a sense of humor, and connect with people with less intensity surrounding the relationship. What does all of this mean sexually? Whatever you want it to mean! Venus in Aquarius is all about disrupting the status quo and paving your own path. So if you’ve been feeling like you’re in a romantic or sexual rut, this is the month to get yourself out of it and take time to visualize what your ideal sex life feels like. You have to commit to having more fun, being wilder and more carefree this month, Capricorn. This will increase your partner’s attraction to you, and it’ll help you be uninhibited in bed. Focus on getting work matters off your mind so you can be emotionally and sexually present when connecting with your lover(s).
Mercury, Planet of Communication, will be retrograde in your communication sector for the 5th to the 28th of the month though, so even if you mentally know who you’re attracted to or the type of sex fantasy you’d like to have fulfilled, there are times this month where you may find yourself tongue-tied and unable to fully express yourself with words. Even in bed you may find yourself clumsy or awkward with your partner. The best thing to do is simply laugh it off and not take yourself or others too seriously. If you’re having sex with someone you’ve been dating for a while, it’s awkward moments in bed that can sometimes create hilarious memories and bring you two together. So release the idea that you have to be the most impressive partner ever. People like it when you show them that you’re human too.
If you’ve been feeling like you’ve been in a dry spell sexually, or that you’d like to switch things up with your current partner(s), it’s partially due to Saturn spending its final full year in your sign. But the New Moon in Pisces that takes place on the 6th has the potential to break down your walls and help you be more vulnerable and sensitive with those around you. Believe it or not, many people are attracted to you, but they’re too intimidated by your tough exterior to let you know that. Let the energy of Mercury in Pisces will help some of your admirers come forward and reveal their intentions. Someone who started off as just a friend or coworker could very well be in your bedroom sometime between March 6 and 16th (which is when the New Moon energy is most felt).
With Uranus, the Planet of Surprise, entering Taurus for 6 years and activating your sector of fate, true love, and adventure, this month will feel like a brand new world, where the connection between you two is so strong and so magnetic. You’ll wonder if you’re dreaming… The more vulnerable you are with each other, the steamier and more passionate the sex, chemistry, and love language between you two will become. Don’t ruin great vibes by overthinking them. Allow yourself to get lost in the fog of it all instead of seeking clarity. Be wild and have car sex, creating fog on the windows. Take a hooky from work and go for a walk in the woods that leads to sex. The more you step out of your comfort zone using this New Moon magic, the better.
By the time Aries Season begins on the 20th, followed by the Libra Full Moon, you’ll start to notice your sex drive significantly increasing. You’ll be feeling more confident in yourself, and because Aries Season represents the astrological new year, you’ll be ready to overcome some of the grudges you may have previously held in relationships. This frees up room for you to either heal your current sex karma with partners, or attract new connections which can break an unhealthy pattern of pushing people away just when things start to get sexy and intimate. The Libra Full Moon will ask you to tackle any fears of expansion, exploration and commitment. You may end up asking your partner to be very honest about how you can improve as a lover, and if they’re open to hearing your desires and suggestions too then you’ll become focused on pleasing each other with mutual attention and intention. This will take you to unforeseen levels of sexual stimulation.