Your ruler Mercury will experience its third and final retrograde on the 31st of this month, Gemini. That means that all month leading up to it, your sex life may have something to do with an element from your past, a repetitive theme that keeps popping up, and an itch that you can’t stop scratching. Sex is linked with spirituality. Sometimes you understand that, sometimes you don’t. This month is one of those times when you can clearly draw the lines between the two, and you become awakened to how much your body is a vessel that must be treated with respect and dignity. The same goes for everyone else’s body, including those you sexually merge with.
The Libra New Moon that took place at the end of September is still going strong throughout the first 8 days of October. It’s activating your sector of fate, fun and true love, making it an ideal time to start fresh in that department. Stop beating yourself up for past mistakes and hold yourself accountable for the type of lover you’re going to be and the type of lover you’re going to consistently attract. The number one reason you don’t get what you want is because you don’t take the time to honestly tell yourself what you want, Gemini. That can all change this month.
Pluto, the Planet of Transformation, ends its five-month retrograde in Capricorn on October 3, and this activates your sector of depth, merging and intimacy. Think back to your love and sex life ever since April 2019. How many things have you kept bottled up inside, instead of communicating honestly to your partner/lover/desired bae? Now that Pluto’s direct again, everything you’ve bottled up within you will start to come to the surface of your life, especially once the Full Moon in Aries takes place 10 days later on October 13th. People often mistake you as shallow or superficial, but that’s because not everyone can peel your layers and see the depth that exists beyond the surface or the facade.
Mid-month, you may strike a conversation with a current, past or perspective lover that makes you feel seen, heard, and understood. Most of the time you end up seeking partners where you feel that way, but too often you expect them to fill an emotional void or be the cause of your happiness. The Aries Full Moon will awaken you to the fact that you are the main source of your pleasure, so even if you’ve been looking outside of yourself for someone to sexually satisfy you, you’ll end up feeling dissatisfied if you don’t take the time to properly heal whatever part of you feels like it’s missing. You’ve been whole all along, my love.
Manifest partners and relationships that remind you of your wholeness, and that don’t make you feel like you constantly have to prove your worthiness to yourself or others. Once you connect with someone in a more easeful way, you’ll notice the constant chatter and angst decreasing significantly, and you’ll be able to enjoy your sexual and intimate connections from a more present and self-aware place.
But once Scorpio Season begins on the 23rd, Gemini, your shadow side will emerge and ask to be seen. While it may be comforting to know that you’re always evolving, during Scorpio Season you’ll also have to hold yourself accountable when you were consciously petty, mean or disrespectful in previous romantic relationships. Karmic ties are being severed, healed, or brought to your attention as the month comes to an end, especially since Mercury retrograde begins on the last day of October. There’s a sexual cycle that has to be disrupted for you to really ascend to the next level of your life.
Once the Scorpio New Moon takes place on the 27th, a part of you may feel ready to forgive yourself or others for continuing to play out toxic patterns in your relationship. Controlling behavior, emotional manipulation or narcissism must be nipped in the bud for your chakras to flow freely. And once your chakras flow freely, your sex drive increases exponentially, and you can end this roller-coaster of a month feeling profoundly turned on by your own evolution and sexually and spiritually blissed out with current or potential bae(s).