Taurus December

With Venus, the Planet of Love, in Scorpio all month long, you are likely to feel more obsessive, passionate and magnetic sexually this month, Taurus. That’s because you’re ruled by Venus, and Scorpio is your opposite sign of the zodiac. Yes, this can translate as you literally falling in love with a Scorpio or someone with many Scorpio placements in their chart (check their birth chart so you know it’s real). But it can also simply mean that the Scorpio energy of taking things to extremes, being caught up emotionally, fantasizing about your next sexual energy, and seeking deep loyalty and trust will be emphasized in your life this month. You can manifest having more fulfilling and meaningful sex this month than you have most of the year, and that’s whether you’re single or in a relationship. It all depends on how open you decide to be when merging emotionally and sexually with others, Taurus. They will be very drawn to you and attracted to your mysterious aura… Even if you’ve been consistently sleeping with the same person (or people) this year, they’ll be longing to get inside your head and understand exactly how you feel about them.

With Mercury being retrograde the first 6 days of December, it may not be until the second week of the month that you have greater clarity about what you really want from sex and your relationships, so avoid putting too much pressure on yourself to figure it all out right now. Linger in the uncertainty of it all, especially if it makes you uncomfortable — there’s a treasure to discover in the unknown.

The New Moon in Sag on December 7 leads to a great breakthrough for you about what your sexual needs are. Since Sagittarius energy is wild and untameable, you may realize that you’ve been playing it too safe and sticking with the tried and true in bed lately. Even if you’re on a sex break and have mostly been pleasing yourself through masturbation, it’s important to switch things up and not get so lost in the routine of sex that you become desensitized to it. This is especially true if you’re actively having sex with a partner — use the sultry energy of Venus in Scorpio to take control and show your lover(s) how it’s done.

Sex will be on your mind all month long, and with Mars, the Planet of Action, spending all month in sensitive Pisces, you’ll also be more romantic and sensitive to the emotional needs of your partner(s). This means that sex won’t just be sex — every interaction will be infused with something deeper, and it’ll be difficult to disassociate love from sex. It’s very important for you to be on the same page with those you are attracted to — avoid playing mind games or letting your pride keep you from admitting how badly you want them or are thinking of them. Writing love notes, doing a romantic scavenger hunts where you drop clues, playing naked truth or dare or strip poker, skinny dipping in the pool… Let the Sag New Moon bring out your more reckless and wild side, Taurus. You’ll feel these vibes most intensely from December 7 – December 17. Even if you think you’ve laid that side of you to rest, it will be reawakened by the Sagittarius energy, and it will make your sex life hotter than ever, as long as you don’t overthink it… just do it.

This carefree version of you will only be fleeting, though. On December 21, the Sun shifts out of Sagittarius and enters Capricorn, where it remains for four weeks. During Capricorn Season, you’ll be focused on expansion and growth in every area of your life. You may suddenly get bored of the status quo, but you won’t necessarily know how to shake things up. As a Taurus, you tend to avoid change unless it’s self-imposed. The Cancer Full Moon on the 22nd will be your wake-up call — you’ll feel ready for a change in your sex life, and you’ll want to have a blend of unpredictability and predictability when it comes to how often you have sex, where you have sex, who you have sex with, etc… You may end up leaving your sexual partner(s) in the dark when it comes to what your true needs are, and that may be because you’ll be busy figuring it all out for yourself. So take your time as the month comes to an end, Taurus. There will be days where your sex drive is through the roof and you’ll be fantasizing about your next time doing the deed. But then there will be days when you’re spiritually recharging as 2019 approaches, and you’re practicing self-discipline by not being controlled by your libido. You’re a sign of extremes, and with Venus in the fellow extreme sign of Scorpio all month, you’ll vacillate between needing sex to feel energized, and needing space to grow. Try your best to find a balance between both urges, Taurus.