Welcome to November, Aquarius. Mars, the Planet of Action, finally shifts out of your zodiac sign this month and enters Pisces, activating your sector of security and money. This means you’ll have more options when it comes to sex, and you ’ll have to tune into what your heart wants — not necessarily just what your head thinks it wants — to make the best sexual and romantic choices. You ’ve been really in your head for most of the year, but November is the beginning of a shift in your life, where you are more emotionally invested in your relationships. This means that you won’t be having sex with just anyone — you may even turn down people, even if they’re regulars.
The Scorpio Sun lights up your career and reputation sector for the first three weeks of the month, and you’ll be very focused on putting your passions first at work. The chances are high that you’ll collaborate with someone who understands your vision, and this connection can lead to sexual sparks flying between you two, especially if you’re single. If you’re coupled, take time to share what your current goals and dreams are with your partner. The more you let them into that aspect of your life, the better your sex with them will be because you’ll feel in tune with them not only sexually, but also ambitiously. This month, in particular, you are attracted to partners who can support your hustle, both in and out of the bedroom. Your form of foreplay may include exchanging business plans with each other and talking about how to build your empire. The energy of the New Moon in Scorpio from November 7 to 17th will be especially sexy and empowering when it comes to boosting your self-confidence as a lover and at work too. Work and sex will be interconnected.
Mid-month, once Mars shifts out of your sign and Venus ends its retrograde, you’ll start to feel more settled in your relationships, and that’s really when things start to slow down for you — in a good way. You may have previously avoided heart-to-hearts and stuck with intellectual discussions, but with Mars, in Pisces you’ll be initiating conversations that may surprise you. You’ll be curious to know the direction that you and someone special are taking. Sex won’t be just sex for you at this time. You’ll want to know what it means for the person involved, and you won’t want to play any mind games with them either. This is a refreshing change of pace for all parties involved, and your partner(s) may find that you’ve evolved and matured significantly. You may still be adjusting to all of these new emotions that are emanating from you this month, Aquarius, and the key is to take the time to feel them out without making any drastic decisions in your sex or love life. There’s no need to rule someone out forever just because they aren’t on the same wavelength as you. If the sex is good and the connection is strong, wait until the end of the month to see how things naturally unravel on their own. Avoid putting pressure on yourself or others to take things in a certain direction.
You’ll be glad that you adopted this “wait-and-see” mentality once Sag Season begins on November 22, followed by the Gemini Full Moon on November 23. That’s because the mood in the cosmos will shift considerably around this last week of November, and your sexual preferences from earlier in the month may vacillate too. When the Sun’s in Sagittarius, you become more detached and flirtatious. With your friendship and social network sector being activated by this transit, single Aquarians may find themselves hooking up with a friend or someone they previously viewed platonically. A friends with benefits situation may develop around this time, which can be very steamy and exciting, but just make sure everyone’s on the same page to avoid a future fall out.
For Aquarians in a relationship, approach sex with your partner with the beginner’s mind. Once Neptune goes directly on November 24, you’ll have the perfect opportunity to be honest about when you’ve felt bored or unenthused sexually. Get to know your partner’s body with a fresh set of eyes, and have them do the same for you. It’ll be deeply enticing for you both to treat each other as though you’ve never had sex before. Discover each other’s quirks and desires… Tantalize and tease each other. Make love like there’s no tomorrow. As an Aquarius, people don’t often realize just how deep your sexual nature can be when you’re in the right state of mind and environment. This month though, get ready to blow them all out the water. They’re not ready for what’s in store. But boy will they be thankful for it.