Cancer May

The month of May will have you feeling in your element, Cancer, especially starting on the 15th, when Mars, the Planet of Action, enters your sign for several weeks. During Mars’ transit in Gemini, your sex and love life may have been all over the place. One day you may have felt super horny, and the other you needed your space and were pushing your lover(s) away. The moodiness may still continue during Mars in Cancer, but that’s not necessarily a bad thing. The only time it gets troubling is when you let moodiness turn into passive aggressiveness, and you bottle up your emotions, not letting those you love know what’s really on your heart. You wouldn’t want to end up horny and frustrated just because you expected someone to be a mind-reader… So the month of May is about taking accountability, and going from doing to being. Be the lover of your fantasies. Direct that love towards yourself. Look at yourself in the mirror each day and say “Hey you, sexy ‘lil thang”… or whatever variation suits you.

Taking care of how your body feels is an essential step in feeling orgasmic this month, Cancer. The New Moon in Taurus on the 4th will help you get down to the basics and understand what your body craves from no one else but you and only you. Loving on yourself has to be a regular ritual, and not something that’s done superficially or put on the back burner. Instead of solely worrying about pleasing your partner(s), this Taurus New Moon will help you tap into a personal intimacy that rocks your world. You are ruled by the Moon, so between May 4th and 14th, the intentions you set to get rid of sexual baggage and romantic hang-ups. You’re one of the freakiest signs of the zodiac, but you have to engage with people you fully trust in order to really let your guard down. Taurus Season will allow you to distinguish who’s worth your time, and who you’ve outgrown, for now at least.

On the 18th, the Scorpio Full Moon activates your sector of fate, true love and adventure. Think back to your love life six months ago, around November 2018. Chances are that whomever you were merging with back then will still have a lasting influence on your life now. Either you’ll finally be getting over an ex, or you’ll be hooking up with one again (because we’re in retrograde season, so the past is a major theme this month). It’s also possible that if you made a celibacy or abstinence vow, you’ll think back on how far you’ve come and how much you’ve grown since then. If you find yourself having a date or rendezvous anytime between the 14th and 22nd of May, it may be one of the steamiest encounters you’ve had in quite some time, full of sizzling eye contact and ear whispers… Even if you don’t touch each other, the sexual tension between you will be palpable. Realize that this is your story. Every decision brings you closer to that climax. So don’t hold back from making it clear to your crushes or objects of desires that you want to get in their pants. Just make sure the vibes are right. You of all people know when to trust the vibes.

If you’re already in a committed relationship, May is the month to switch things up in the bedroom. Use the blend of Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Capricorn and Scorpio energy to push boundaries (as long as both you and your partner feel at ease with this exploration) and take each other to new levels of ecstasy. Mars in your sign for the second half of the month will have you feeling brand new, so it’s an excellent time for a makeover or to get treated to a mini-shopping spree by your lover. Your partner or crush may cook for you, massage you and listen to you vent, and you’ll experience some of the best forms of foreplay you could ask for. Because you’ll be more magnetic than ever, you’ll be able to get what you want with ease — so ask for it. Most of the time humans don’t get what they want because they don’t ask for it. You’ve awakened.

This isn’t the type of month where you should hide in your shell, afraid of human interaction, Cancer. While retrograde season will make you more introspective, Mars in your sign increases your sex appeal and your sex drive, so unleash your penetrating waters and dive deep. Once Gemini Season begins on the 21st, you may find yourself finally balancing out your desire for jaw-dropping sex and your desire to just mellow out and not be overtaken with strong sexual urges. If you’re single, watch out for a platonic relationship to take a sudden romantic turn… And if you’re boo’d up, challenge yourself to go one day without touching each other, but instead make ferocious eye contact to each other as a form of communication every time you cross each other’s paths. Then watch how riled up you two get by the end of the day…