Cancer September

Protect your energy this month, Cancer. Your sensitivity will be intensified, especially during Virgo Season the first three weeks of the month. This activates your communication sector and can increase insecurities in your relationships. Instead of hiding behind your shell, challenge yourself to get clear about what your sexual and emotional triggers are and put in the work to acknowledge and heal them. That’s the best way to make room in your life for the soul-stirring sexual experiences you desire.

Use the energy of the Virgo New Moon during the first third of the month to visualize yourself in the most sexually fulfilling positions, scenarios and partnerships. Don’t limit where your imagination goes… instead, take notes. Then dare to share that creative visualization with bae (or visualize yourself telling future bae in vivid detail). Once you practice opening your throat chakra, don’t be surprised if what once was a sexual fantasy becomes a blissful reality.

The Pisces Full Moon on the 14th of September brings out so many repressed emotions in your love and sex life. Perhaps you’ve been running away from them lately, especially during Virgo Season, and trying to use your career goals as a distraction. But there’s no more running — it’s time to face your feels. Your body will be yearning from intimacy and soulful connection around this time, but not just from anyone. You’re seeking the type of connection that takes you into a completely new stratosphere. If you’re already boo’d up, plan a romantic date night sometime between the 10th and the 18th of September — that’s when you’ll feel the Full Moon magic most.

It’s important for you to not only focus on your lover’s sexual needs, but work on expressing your own so that you too can experience the sexual ecstasy that you deserve. This Full Moon also has to do with closure and release, so it’s possible that you’ll end a toxic relationship around this time, even if it took months (or years) for you to get there. Let yourself mourn if you have to, but don’t isolate yourself from human contact at this time. View yourself as your main source of pleasure as you shed the old skin and step into your new life.

With Uranus, the Planet of Surprise, currently retrograde in your spirituality and healing sector until January, there’s a likelihood that you’ll reconnect with a twin flame or soulmate this month. It may at first feel terrifying, especially if you had convinced yourself that the relationship was over and done for. The Universe may potentially be testing you to see if you’re going to fall into the same patterns of letting people back into your life (and your bed). If the person who reappears in your life intuitively makes you feel good (not just in terms of turning you on, but in terms of making you feel emotionally secure), and their energy is calming, then you can trust yourself and not be hard on yourself if you feel sexually and emotionally drawn to them. Just like you’ve been doing the work to evolve, they have been to, and chances are that if you do have sex this month, it will be some of the best sex you’ve had this year!

However, if someone resurfaces and gives you anxiety, makes you feel afraid or insecure, or has you wondering what their intentions are, then it’s a sign to set clear boundaries (even if the sex is bomb). Saturn going direct in your partnership sector on the 18th of this month will help you do so. Some of the recurring challenges you may have had in your love and sex life will begin to dissipate at this time, allowing you to breathe easy and focus on cultivating healthy, exciting, orgasmic connections with people who have your best interest at heart. This will especially be the case during the second half of September, when Mercury and Venus will be in the harmonious sign of Libra. You won’t only be thinking of your own needs, but of your lover’s needs — especially those that are unexpressed but that you can intuitively pick up on.

Once Libra Season begins on the 23rd, followed by the annual New Moon in Libra on the 28th, you’ll be in the mood to turn fantasies into reality. Role-play, handcuffs, blindfolds, chocolate-covered strawberries, massages with body oil… Don’t limit yourself when it comes to sexual exploration, even if it starts off as a solo exploration. You’re ruled by the Moon and will be feeling extra sultry, romantic and irresistible as the month comes to an end. Indulge in your sexual mysticism and manifest the type of sex you know you deserve. The naughtier, the better.