Virgo November

Virgo, your ruler Mercury has completed its final retrograde of 2020 this month. It went direct on November 3rd, and 10 days later, Mars, the Planet of Action, went direct in Aries. What does this mean for your sex life? What doesn’t it mean?! You’re coming alive, and it feels lovely. Everyone truly loves to see it. With Mercury re-entering Scorpio on the 10th, followed by the Scorpio New Moon on the 15th, your mind will be permeated with more sensual and deeply penetrative thoughts regarding sexuality and intimacy. No matter what you try to distract yourself with, sex will be on your mind and you’ll find yourself feeling hornier and more in love with yourself than you have most of the year.

Venus is in Libra until the 21st, activating your sector of abundance and security, and helping you let go of the rigid expectations you hold on current, past or potential sexual partners. With Mars, the Planet of Action and Sex, spending its first full month direct in Aries, your sector of depth and intimacy is activated and you may feel like you’ve woken up from a two-month sexual hibernation. Suddenly, you’re seeing and feeling yourself more clearly, and this can lead to you wanting a makeover. Play around with your style, go shopping for sexier attire, or choose to spend more time wearing nothing at all. Your naughty side is ready to play this Scorpio Season, and it can’t be tamed. Find a playmate who’s ready to unleash the waterworks with you time and time again, and don’t stop until you’re both dripped in sweat, tears, or both. Let your intensity reign in the bedroom, bathroom, at the beach, in between business meetings — anywhere, at any point. You have to set yourself free sexually to experience the depths of what you’re meant to have. Are you ready to fully dive in?

The 21st, Venus shifts into Scorpio, and even though the Sun will be in Sagittarius, it will give us the feeling of a Scorpio Season after-party. You’ll therefore vacillate from wanting to lock down one special person who’s been the key to your mindgasms, and the desire to play the field and connect with new people who can leave you feeling butterflies in more ways than one. Why not both? Sag Season is also eclipse season, which means you’d benefit from opening yourself up to the unexpected. If you’ve felt prudish this year, the Gemini Lunar Eclipse on the 30th (and the week that precedes it) could lead to a powerfully revitalizing surge of sexual energy that makes sex much more of a priority as you round out the year.

Alternatively, if you haven’t been able to get your mind off of sex, this eclipse could help you learn how to detach from your need to know what your partner(s) want, and it will help you explore new ways of getting what you want, with ease. If you’re single, the last week of November is one of the best times to go on a date or spend time outside of your home. Serendipitous connections and sexual liaisons await once you step out of your comfort zone and say yes to exciting, unforeseen opportunities. Don’t cockblock your own self by letting your expectations or standards eliminate potential prospects before they woo you. Open your mind, heart, and potentially your legs to begin blown away and left breathless by bae(s).